Relationships are where it’s at for you this month, two. Your focus is squarely on what (or rather, who) completes you. There’s a simple trick to getting this part of your life right. So many people spend years and years agonising over partnership, romance and love. You needn’t do that – you just have to make friends with your own psychological shadow. We can learn to find love or fix the love we have by avoiding projection. This month your inner demons will likely make themselves known, but only to put you in direct touch with the kind of partner that will make you happiest. When your boyfriend, husband, or date annoys you, turn the feeling around and explore whether or not the behavior is reminding you of something you don’t like about yourself. Yes, this can be scary, but it’s instant, free psychotherapy. Why spend years on the couch when you can figure it out in a flash?
