If there's one thing to know about Taylor Swift, it's that she loves love. She sings about it, she writes about it, and she obviously wants to celebrate it, so it makes sense that she's been to a lot of weddings—whether she was officially invited or not. Here, all the times Taylor Swift has been to (or has almost been to) a wedding:

1. When She Was a Bridesmaid in Abigail Anderson's Wedding

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This October, Swift's longtime best friend, former Grammy date, and "Fifteen" music video co-star, Abigail Anderson got married in Martha's Vineyard. Swift was, of course, a bridesmaid and can be spotted in some of the above photos shared by fellow bridesmaid Harper Grae. (You can also hear Swift giving a possibly raunchy wedding speech in this video that surfaced.)

2. When She Was the Maid of Honor at Britany Maack's Wedding

Swift's other longtime best friend, Britany Maack (now Britany LaManna), tied the knot in Feb. 2016 with Swift by her side as maid of honor. While the pictures are enough to make anyone swoon (those dresses!), the speech Swift gave at the reception really shows off her sweet side. Skip to 6:35 to hear:

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3. When She Crashed a Fan's Wedding and Sang "Blank Space"

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Max Singer and Kenya Smith decided to have a small wedding in June 2016, almost a year after Singer's mother died of cancer. The two had previously gotten married in a hospice care center with Singer's mother while she was still alive, and the groom and his mom danced to Swift's "Blank Space." According to the New York Times, the song was one of Singer's favorites, and he ended up writing his graduate school application essay based on song titles from Swift's 1989 album. A family friend then got a hold of the essay and sent it off to people in hopes of it reaching Swift, who then completely surprised the couple on their wedding day with a special performance of "Blank Space."

4. When She Surprised a Fan By Crashing Her Bridal Shower

Weddings and bridal showers are close enough, right? Though Swift wasn't able to make it to her loyal fan Gena's big day, she did hop on a plane and fly to Ohio in order to attend her bridal shower — without telling any of Gena's friends or family beforehand. In true Swift-fashion, she brought along a bunch of gifts for the bride-to-be and then made a vlog about it.

5. When She Met Up With Two Fans Who Got Married Right Before Her Concert

Katy Harris and Chris Eisenman proved themselves to be the ultimate Swift fans when they got married in the parking lot of Lincoln Financial Field right before Swift's Philadelphia concert in June 2015. When Swift's mom got wind of the ceremony (due to Harris posting her plans on Instagram a few days before the show), she pulled the couple backstage to meet their idol.

6. When She Attended Squad Member Claire Winter Kislinger's Wedding

Though there has yet to be a picture of Swift at said wedding, a TSwift fan account recently noticed that the singer's name was on one of the many place cards at Claire Winter Kislinger's wedding. Kislinger is a known member of Swift's squad (she made it onto Swift's "Look What You Made Me Do" pajama shirt), so it's unsurprising that she would attend.

7. When She Helped Break Up a Wedding on New Girl

OK so this one didn't actually happen in real life, but it's still Swift at a wedding! The singer made a cameo in the season 2 finale of New Girl as Elaine, a woman who's hopelessly in love with Cece's fiancé and ends up running away with him in the middle of Cece's wedding. (It's basically her song "Speak Now" come to life.)

From: ELLE US
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