It's Friday, people! So let's chat about death. No better time, eh? We're all scared of the inevitable end. It's the uncertainty. It's absolutely terrifying. That and we've got a zillion things to fit in before our time is up, yet we all spent half an hour in a Beyonce-baby-shaped whole this morning.

Maybe we're all secretly dying (sorry) to talk about it more? After all, it's one of the few universally shared experiences and we're all scared sh*tless.

Which may explain why Reddit user Skintownlad's post: 'What part ageing do you wish someone had warned you about?' has blown up in a mere 19 hours. The thread has been flooded with over ten thousand replies, responses and endearingly honest outpourings about getting older.

We start off with some solid, old-fashioned advice from the suitably named In_the_heat:

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Lots of posts were equally concerned with health:

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Same, tbh:

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Also same:

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And again:

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But then the conversation swerves from grey hair woes and hangover jokes into real-life adult problems.

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Lots of people are quite rightly concerned about their ageing parents.

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And then this happens:

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Intense stuff, granted. But it's not all doom and gloom, lots of useful advice appears now and again:

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If you're feeling overwhelmed, Reddit user tddup has got a comforting perspective on the whole thing:

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But, also, it's all a bit too real. We're inclined to agree with Prettyfloralbo0nnet:

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This is just a snippet, read all the posts here.

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Louise Donovan is the Deputy Digital Editor at ELLE UK, with a focus on international women's rights, global development and human interest stories. She's reported from countries in Africa, Asia, Latin America and the Middle East.