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1Putting a sixpence in the bride's shoe
Getty Images While brides today still often make sure to have something borrowed, something old, something new, and something blue on their wedding days, the famous saying actually ends with "...and a sixpence in her shoe," a lucky coin traditionally give to the bride by her father to symbolise good health and wealth for the newlyweds. On Etsy, you can find cute sixpence charms.
2Making a grand exit
These days, newlyweds typically head off to the after-party once the wedding ends, but we think it's time they started decking out their cars with "Just Married" signs and tin cans again. And while we're at it, let's bring back the "going away" outfit change. There's something special about sending off the bride and groom, smartly dressed for their next big adventure, as the bride throws the bouquet to her guests. The could always sneak back for the party after a little conjugal respite.
3Hiding a charm inside your wedding cake
This Southern tradition dates back to Victorian times, when tiny charms with ribbons attached were placed inside wedding cakes. Charms would be decorated with a fortune for the future, and guests would then pull them out of the cake in a ceremony called a "cake pull" before it was sliced and served.
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4Writing a letter to your spouse the night before the wedding
Getty Images It used to be common for brides and grooms to write love letters to each other, which would be placed in a box and opened on their first anniversary.
5Planting a pine tree outside your home
Traditionally, pine trees were thought to symbolize new beginnings. In places like Holland and Switzerland, couples would plant a tree at their new house as part of the ceremony for good luck.
6Freezing a slice of wedding cake (or the entire top tier!)
Getty Images It used to be very common to freeze the top tier of your wedding cake to break out and eat together on your first anniversary.
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7Serving a groom's cake
Embraced by the South (we all know the hilarious red velvet armadillo cake scene from Steel Magnolias!), groom's cakes are a tradition that was actually started in Victorian England, when there would be a wedding cake, a groom's cake (for the groomsmen), and a bride's cake (for the bridesmaids). While the wedding cake is usually vanilla, the groom's cake is a place to have fun with chocolate and other less traditional flavors. Because more cake = a better wedding.
8Wearing a snake ring as a wedding band
Etsy/BeckersJewelersCT 9Not seeing each other before the ceremony
Couples today often make the decision to see each other before the ceremony so they can get portraits out of the way and enjoy the post-ceremony festivities. But while the tradition of not seeing your betrothed before walking down the aisle has some unpleasant origins (essentially, back when marriage was considered a business transaction, this was a way to ensure the groom didn't back out of the deal).
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10Taking a month-long honeymoon
Honeymoons used to involve the couple drinking a fermented wine made from honey, called mead, for a month (a full cycle of the moon) following their wedding. We're not saying drink mead for a whole month, but the idea of bringing back the month-long honeymoon sounds pretty great.
11Having a morning wedding
At the turn of the century, wedding guides advised brides that the ideal time to marry was high noon, following the British practice of lunchtime wedding receptions.
12Hosting a simple reception
While modern weddings often involve hors d'oeuvres, full sit-down meals, dancing, open bars, and other elaborate trappings, weddings have traditionally been much simpler affairs. As late as the 1960s, couples often skipped the post-wedding reception, and if they did have one, it typically involved just cake and punch. Sounds sweet to us!
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