Taylor Swift, noted boy expert, has revealed the perfect strategy for saying "I love you" for the first time. First, set it up right: Start by holding the guy's hand in public. Then post a couple of Instagrams of the two of you, being cuddly for your 43.8 million followers. After, make the blanket statement that you love people of his nationality at a stadium concert.

Finally, when he himself has made it clear to the press just how much he likes you, say those three little words. In a stadium with him sitting front row. This is what Taylor Swift allegedly did to Calvin Harris Monday night:

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'I love you,' Calvin or 'I love you,' fans? Either works, but definitely the first if he says it back.

Words by Alyssa Bailey at ELLE

From: ELLE US