Here at ELLE, we're all about ditching the expectations, owning your life choices and making your own milestones... however left-field they may be. And when it comes to mothering, it goes without saying that in this modern world, it's no longer reliant on the act of birthing a child - there’s a plethora of ways you can embrace your nurturing side. Take inspiration from our Social Media Manager Amy Brewster and build your family, your way. Just add gin!

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