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30 Most Inspiring Self-Help Books To Refresh The Way You Think

From memoirs to mental decluttering guides, here is your go-to list of self-care literature, to help your mind, body and beliefs.

By Team ELLE
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Whether you want to feel more courageous, implement new habits for your daily routine, stop worrying or become more productive, self-help books have the ability to help you unlock your potential, and have you feeling happier and healthier.

According to the mental health charity MIND: ‘Self-care techniques and general lifestyle changes can help manage the symptoms of many mental health problems.

‘They may also help prevent some problems from developing or getting worse.’

The current cost of living crisis and economic uncertainty may mean you're trying to juggle spending habits with a yearn to invest in yourself, whether that comes to your career, relationships or living situation. And where better to find a helping hand during that journey than with a self-help book?

Here are the best self-help books to buy in 2024 to rejig your life:

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If In Doubt, Wash Your Hair

If In Doubt, Wash Your Hair
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If In Doubt, Wash Your Hair

£12 at Amazon
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Fashion designer Anya Hindmarch's simple guide to life is perfect as a gift for anybody whose life might feel like it needs a little helping hand in the right direction.

From practical tips and quick fixes, to observations about confidence and creativity, this go-to handbook will show you how to live a little better – and why sometimes, the answer can be as simple as washing your hair.

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The Book You Want Everyone You Love* To Read *(and maybe a few you don’t): THE SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER

The Book You Want Everyone You Love* To Read *(and maybe a few you don’t): THE SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER
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The Book You Want Everyone You Love* To Read *(and maybe a few you don’t): THE SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER

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In this pocket-sized book, psychotherapist Philippa Perry shows you how to approach life’s big problems particularly as it pertains to your relationships. Perry's philosophy is simple: if you can get those relationships on a functional and even keel, then the other tricky stuff that life throws your way becomes easier to manage.

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Glennon Doyle

Glennon Doyle
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Glennon Doyle

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The blurb for Adele-approved book Untamed reads: ‘When women learn to please, we forget who we are.’ The part memoir, part self-help book clocked up 68,000 sales in its first week out in March 2020 — and for good reason too. Doyle's book encourages readers to trust their instincts more, in turn helping them to become more at peace with themselves.

Taking to Instagram to gush about the book, Adele said in 2020: ‘If you’re ready - this book will shake your brain and make your soul scream. I am so ready for myself after reading this book! It’s as if I just flew into my body for the very first time. Whew!’

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Brave, Not Perfect: Fear Less, Fail More and Live Bolder

Brave, Not Perfect: Fear Less, Fail More and Live Bolder
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Brave, Not Perfect: Fear Less, Fail More and Live Bolder

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It's time to unlearn everything you've been programmed to understand about how to be courageous with the help of Girls Who Code founder, Reshma Saujani. Saujani's book focuses on ways in which women are primed to be perfect (and therefore feel inadequate when they don't achieve what they set out to) before offering advice to ensure you're making courageous decisions in everyday life, whether that's standing up for yourself or quitting your job and pursuing your true passion. For anybody who feels like they're at a crossroads in their life, this book will change your perspective.

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The Source: Open Your Mind, Change Your Life

The Source: Open Your Mind, Change Your Life
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The Source: Open Your Mind, Change Your Life

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Ever wondered what the neuroscience is behind manifestation? That’s precisely what The Source covers, including the myriad ways in which manifestation can work. Dr. Tara Swart is a neuroscientist and senior lecturer at MIT and in her revered self-help book she reveals the science that supports The Law of Attraction as an effective tool for self-discovery.

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Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking

Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking
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Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking

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Susan Cain perfectly articulates why the binaries of being an introvert or an extrovert are outdated. Having practiced corporate law for seven years, Cain explores this concept in order to bring new life to the definition of introverts and extroverts. Prepare for your mind to be blown.

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Thinking, Fast and Slow

Thinking, Fast and Slow
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Thinking, Fast and Slow

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Daniel Kahneman, who won the Nobel Memorial Prize for Economics in 2002, interrogates the human condition by explaining behavioural economics, and how certain human behaviours can be analysed in order to make different, or better choices.

Kahneman seminal book helps us to analyse how we can separate ourselves from ‘fast’ or irrational thinking to lead better, calmer more logical lives.

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Me vs Brain: An Overthinker’s Guide to Life

Me vs Brain: An Overthinker’s Guide to Life
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Me vs Brain: An Overthinker’s Guide to Life

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Overthinkers rejoice. Me vs Brain is all about unpicking the anxiety-inducing thoughts, feelings and worries that can take a toll on us daily, which Hayley Morris knows all too well.

Otherwise known as 'the brain girl', Morris wants to make it clear that she is normal, as is everyone like her. From imaginary arguments to sleepless nights, Morris has experienced the various realities of having an overworked brain, and has used it to create this guide that delves into topics such as dating and menstrual health. Here's to taking steps towards feeling more confident in our skin.

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The Squiggly Career: The No.1 Sunday Times Business Bestseller - Ditch the Ladder, Discover Opportunity, Design Your Career

The Squiggly Career: The No.1 Sunday Times Business Bestseller - Ditch the Ladder, Discover Opportunity, Design Your Career
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The Squiggly Career: The No.1 Sunday Times Business Bestseller - Ditch the Ladder, Discover Opportunity, Design Your Career

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For many, career ladders are a thing of the past. Instead, a flexible work arrangement, undefined next steps and, as this book title suggests, a squiggly employment history are more and more common. According to the Chartered Institute of Personnel and Development, as of June 2022, more than 6.5 million people in the UK expect to quit their job in the next 12 months. This book helps to ease the stress and overwhelming feelings that can arise from moving frequently and fluidly between roles. It highlights the opportunities, freedom and fulfilment that can follow.

Featuring personal case studies from highly successful people, it inspires career growth and happiness, your way.

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The Miracle Morning: The 6 Habits That Will Transform Your Life Before 8AM

The Miracle Morning: The 6 Habits That Will Transform Your Life Before 8AM
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The Miracle Morning: The 6 Habits That Will Transform Your Life Before 8AM

If you want to fiercely own your morning routine and wake up to your full potential, let The Miracle Morning be your guide. Author Hal Elrod provides transformative tips for maximising your days by allowing time to do the things you love. By following his advice, you'll wake up feeling more motivated, energised and focused. Ever found yourself creating a vision board of your dream life? Read this and bring it to life.

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You Coach You: The No.1 Sunday Times Business Bestseller – How to Overcome Challenges and Take Control of Your Career

You Coach You: The No.1 Sunday Times Business Bestseller – How to Overcome Challenges and Take Control of Your Career
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You Coach You: The No.1 Sunday Times Business Bestseller – How to Overcome Challenges and Take Control of Your Career

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Helen Tupper and Sarah Ellis are the founders of award-winning career development company Amazing If. They are using their success in business to help others become confident self-directed leaders. This tool guide is a subversive take on self-help books, as it helps us to seek out our inner coach to feel assured we can make transformative changes in our professional life on our own accord. Develop self-awareness and 'own' your career with the powerful duo's insightful tips which will see you through even the toughest days.

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Gentle Nutrition: A Non-Diet Approach to Healthy Eating

Gentle Nutrition: A Non-Diet Approach to Healthy Eating
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Gentle Nutrition: A Non-Diet Approach to Healthy Eating

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Get ready to unlearn everything you know about dieting and weight loss. Brought to you by registered dietician Rachael Hartley, who champions inclusive nutrition, intuitive eating and body image healing, it focuses on a non-restrictive approach to healthy eating. Cutting through toxic messaging, she demonstrates how gentle nutrition allows for nourishing our bodies throughout the day while taking pleasure from food. It includes 50 nutritious recipes, too.

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Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before?

Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before?
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Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before?

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Dr Julie teaches powerful training techniques that will help you develop resilience no matter how hard your experiences have been.

Easy to digest, this book comes in the form of bite-size entries, enabling you to turn to a specific section and tackle a particular problem or challenge. It will boost your self-confidence and motivation, whether you're feeling anxious, facing criticism or grappling with a low mood.

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Financial Wellness and How to Find It

Financial Wellness and How to Find It
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Financial Wellness and How to Find It

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Navigating our finances can have a strenuous affect on our mental health, and becoming more at peace with spending, prioritising and budgeting becomes much easier when we have a healthy relationship with our finances. That's where Melanie Eusebe comes in. She shares tools and resources to help you revive your approach to money and manage your financial happiness, regardless of the economy.

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Out of Office: The Big Problem and Bigger Promise of Working from Home

Out of Office: The Big Problem and Bigger Promise of Working from Home
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Out of Office: The Big Problem and Bigger Promise of Working from Home

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This topical and continually relevant book is one for every office worker, with provocative reporting and interviews featuring workers and managers to highlight key issues around office work. Fairness, flexibility and inclusivity are all covered, and rather than just being about remote working, this book sets out to renew our relationship with the office.

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Saved by the Siesta: fight tiredness and boost your health by unlocking the science of napping

Saved by the Siesta: fight tiredness and boost your health by unlocking the science of napping
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Saved by the Siesta: fight tiredness and boost your health by unlocking the science of napping

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You've heard about the importance of sleep and the effect a lack of it has on the body. This book, however, gives a refreshing, in-depth insight into the subtleties of sleep - the right body position to adopt, the times that are conductive, the stages of sleep that heighten awareness and more. It unplugs how to get to sleep efficiently and wake up feeling well-rested. Not to mention, it gives a practical guide around the benefits of napping.

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Toxic Positivity: Keeping It Real in a World Obsessed with Being Happy

Toxic Positivity: Keeping It Real in a World Obsessed with Being Happy
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Toxic Positivity: Keeping It Real in a World Obsessed with Being Happy

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Our days are often peppered with feel good memes and positive quotes such as 'good vibes only'. While mood boosting on occasions, they can often make us feel as though taking time to grieve from a break up, for example, or to understand career pressures should be soothed simply by positive affirmations.

As opposed to leaving less space for taking time to process feelings, this honest guide sees sought-after therapist Whitney Goodman share tangible, practical and applicable advice. Her words of wisdom are based on everyday examples and client stories.

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The Rules of Thinking

The Rules of Thinking
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The Rules of Thinking

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Many of us are conditioned to believe that our thoughts are who we are. In fact, you can actually control your thoughts and learn how to make wiser decisions, stop obsessing over certain issues, keep your brain active and live with happier and healthier thoughts.

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How to Stop Overthinking

How to Stop Overthinking
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How to Stop Overthinking

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Do you ever find yourself lying awake at night totally and completely consumed by your thoughts, that are more often than not negative? Well, it's time to put an end to that and read this book as you'll learn how to control overthinking, how to stop anxiety and worrying, how to stay calm and sleep better.

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Know Your Worth: How to build your self-esteem, grow in confidence and worry less about what people think

Know Your Worth: How to build your self-esteem, grow in confidence and worry less about what people think
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Know Your Worth: How to build your self-esteem, grow in confidence and worry less about what people think

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This is Sunday Times bestselling author psychotherapist Anna Mathur's second book and it's all about finding balance and appreciating your self-worth - two things we really struggle with. If you're looking to improve your self-esteem and confidence, then this is the book for you.

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